Welcome to The Élan League.This is a private, members-only community for the emotionally available, the intentional, and the romantically-minded.Each submission is thoughtfully reviewed to ensure alignment with our values and to preserve the quality of our circle.To maintain an exclusive, high-quality community, membership is by invitation only and carefully capped to preserve intimacy and excellence.If you embody intention, refinement, and are ready to leave casual dating behind, we’d love to offer you an invitation.Please take your time answering the following questions with sincerity and thoughtfulness. Before you begin, please confirm the following: I am single and emotionally available for intentional connection. I understand this is a private, members-only space rooted in sincerity, effort, and respect. I align with the League’s values and am not seeking casual dating, games, or situationships. I understand events are members-only and connections may be curated discreetly. I will complete this form honestly and to the best of my ability. I confirm that I meet the minimum age requirements: 21+ if female, 26+ if male. I understand a membership fee will be required upon acceptance. I agree to be bound by the values and standards of The Élan League, and to carry myself with integrity and respect toward all members at all times. I understand that incomplete or careless submissions will not be considered for membership. Name * First Name Last Name Phone number * (###) ### #### Email * Gender Male Female Instagram handle Date of Birth * Applicants must be women 21+ or men 26+ to qualify for membership. MM DD YYYY Location Neighborhood/Area in NYC or nearby What is your profession? LinkedIn profile To help us maintain a trusted community, feel free to share your LinkedIn profile. This light vetting step helps us ensure alignment. Are you comfortable attending intimate, curated social events? * Yes No Still Unsure What are you currently seeking in this season of life? A serious relationship Marriage or life partnership Intentional dating & meaningful connection All of the above What are three words your friends would use to describe you? What qualities or values matter most to you in a long-term partner or close companion? How do you prioritize respect and communication in your relationships? Would you be interested in being featured in member spotlights or recommended connections within The Élan League? Optional Would you like to share your political perspective? (Optional) Conservative Moderate Liberal Apolitical / Prefer not to say Any deal-breakers or important boundaries we should know about? What makes you feel most seen and cherished by a partner? What does romance mean to you, beyond flowers and dates? What’s something you’ve learned about yourself through past relationships? Would you be open to being matched discreetly with a member post-event? Yes No What are you craving most in connection right now? What makes someone unforgettable to you? Which relationship dynamic most aligns with your values? The Élan League celebrates timeless femininity and emotionally mature masculine leadership. While we honor all perspectives, our community is rooted in traditional values of courtship, care, and intentional connection. I resonate with traditional roles (e.g. men lead, protect, and provide; women receive, inspire, and support) I lean toward modern, egalitarian dynamics I value a blend of both, depending on the energy I’m still exploring what feels right for me Were you referred by a current member of The Élan League? Yes No How did you hear about us? Social Media Word of mouth Google/Search Other (please specify) Thank you for your application!We appreciate your interest in The Élan League. Your information has been received and will be carefully reviewed to ensure the highest quality of our community.If you’re selected, you’ll receive your personal invitation soon.We look forward to welcoming you to an exclusive experience where real connections happen.With Warmth and anticipation The Élan League ✨
